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Hi Everyone, welcome to our new website for single Christians intentional about connecting with another single that is also Christian.

Please note:

You will need to fill out all relevant details in order to register.

Once registered, you will also need to fill out all relevant info in order to complete your profile.

Please note that the picture section of the profile in mobile version presently causes difficulty to complete the profile. But if you can get on a laptop/ desktop you will find that this problem disappears.

Please try and use a low quality or lower mega pixel pic though, whether signing up on mobile or laptop. For mobile signup up, it is worth trying some low mega pixel pic in the meanwhile till we clear things up with the developers. But uploading a pic is the only issue that cause the process to stall. Yet we are working on this, so please bear with us.

Once your profile is filled out, you may upgrade to the complementary premium membership which is free of charge. This allows you to do basic search and be able to have a feel of the website. To see the upgrades, simply click on search or any function that you would like to perform and you will be prompted to upgrade. Feel free to take on our Complimentary one, or pay for one of the others.

The other premium packages are Bronze, Silver, and Gold.

The Bronze gives you 30 days to all features of the website excluding advance search. Silver gives you 90 days access to all features excluding advance search. Gold gives you 90 days access to all features to include advance search. Advance search delves in deeper than search to give you more search options to better pin point the person you are looking for in a single search.

Please bear with us as we sort all issues in our first few days of website launch. We are happy and willing to help you with any technical difficulties that you are not able to decipher. You can Contact us here, or on any of our social media pages.

What is Love ?

Love is a verb. It must be shown through an action that favours the individual receiving it. Love is a selfless act, a sacrifice that requires YOU (the giver of love) to put your needs aside and put the needs of the receiver of your love FIRST.

We can be certain of this because our first and greatest example of true love was exemplified by our Heavenly Father. “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3 vs 16, Amen. Jesus Christ literally came in the flesh, gave up His life and died (this is the sacrifice) just so that we could be freed from the captivity of the enemy and have a chance for eternal life (the favoured results of God’s love) . 

What I find most beautiful about this demonstration of love is that it was a choice. Mankind deservingly had an appointment to face eternal death as a result of committing sin – Romans 6 vs 23. But God, out of His own free will, chose not this pathway for us. Instead, He voluntarily provided a way through Jesus Christ JUST so that we could have life with Him. 

Now that we have been shown what actual love is; we, as the living creation of God, being made in His very likeness and image are now expected to accept this love and then proceed to expand on it with our brethren. 

How? Do we all have to die and be crucified too for the ones we say we love? 

No. The crucifixion of Jesus Christ served a significant purpose and could only be completed by one of a divine nature.  However, in accepting Gods love, we are called to be spiritually crucified which involves denying ourselves, putting to death our carnal desires and removing it from the equation in order to love God and others genuinely. 

God’s being so good has already shown us examples of how we His children can demonstrate this:

Love is patient

Love is kind

Love does not envy

Love does not boast

Love is not proud

Love does not dishonour others

Love is not self-seeking

Love is not easily angered

Love keeps no record of wrong

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in truth

Love protects, trusts, hopes and perseveres

Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13 vs 4-7. 

I want you to have a think about some of the actions of love highlighted above the next time you are in the same room as your loved one. Be intentional and think to yourself, what can I do today to show patience, kindness, protection, hope etc to a loved one? Or, what can I do to avoid becoming easily angered, dishonouring, self-seeking or proud? It might be offering to do the grocery shopping or choosing to keep calm, quiet and listen during a disagreement. 

Whatever you decide on, pause and pray, in your heart on your knees. Wherever you can. Ask God for the Holy Spirit to help you  put the love of Jesus Christ into action. In doing so, remember “I can do all things through Christ who strengtheneth me.” Philippians 4 vs 13, Amen.

A song entitled “Love” by Kirk Franklin follows.

Be blessed.

Article contributed by Grace Owusu, J A Singles.